I Want the Better Plan

This is a note I wrote my sister last year, when she was in the midst of looooong struggle with infertility. She is now pregnant, by the way.

I’ve been thinking of you extra today. There’s always so much I want to say, but I know it’s not really the kind of stuff you want to hear. But I’m really praying you can find peace in this great struggle you’re facing, and a light in this dark cloud you’re in. And that you can find peace in believing that even when God’s plan is different than ours, His plan is surely better. And even if it’s painful at times along the way — even if it’s gut-wrenchingly awful — we want the better plan in the end. This is something I remind myself of when I don’t get the first (or second, or tenth) plan I want… “Even if it’s painful, I want the better plan.” I hope you can find peace and believe this, even in this really horrible time for you. I love you!

When I wrote that, I was also beginning my trial, but I wasn’t ready to tell her that. As the months started racking up for me, that became my repeated mantra, “I want the better plan. I want the better plan. I want the better plan.” You’re welcome to borrow it the next time you see that dreaded one line. “Even if it’s painful, I want the better plan.”

what God has ready
1 Corinthians 2:9

3 thoughts on “I Want the Better Plan

  1. Mrs. 2RYW

    Oh I love how you put this. It’s been a struggle for us, but coming to the realization that there IS a better plan, took so much weight off.


  2. I love this! Thank you, thank you, thank you for sharing it! In total, my husband and I have been blessed with three babies in heaven, one baby here on earth, and what doctors are calling “secondary infertility”. We’ve since been waiting on an adoption for two years, and had one baby for a day before the birthmom changed her mind and decided to parent. Through it all, I definitely could have used “I want the better plan” as my encouragement. I will use it daily going forward. Thank you again!!!


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